At times I get annoyed with myself. Maybe I didn't get the house cleaned up or the car washed, it doesn't matter. It's not the thing that I should have done so much as I didn't do it when given the opportunity.
Which is my point.
When you've got a lot of down time it's tempting to just resign yourself to a lifestyle of procrastination. After all, there's always tomorrow right?
So isn't it strange that when our lives are consumed with the demands of career and family that what we wish for the most is free time. Then when we have it, we squander it.
It's human nature to adapt to our environment so it's no surprise that when we're busy we tend to stay that way and when we're not...
Newton's third law comes into play here. Just as it's hard to stop a speeding train without a lot of effort the same can be said for getting it going.
The problem is that trains aren't people and while the long term effects of a train sitting idle can be corrected rather quickly, idle people take a bit more of a push.
It's far too easy to just lie around and put things off. After awhile we go from relaxation to atrophy.
That's not a good thing. The deeper we descend into inaction the more dire the consequences. Things pile up and as they do you feel worse about them.
The distance between disappointment and depression is dangerously small. Like anything else a condition left untreated won't improve on its own.
So I'd suggest that instead of bringing that train to a stop to watch the weeds grow around it that you at least try to keep it in motion even if you can't crank it up to full throttle.
Speaking of weeds, I bet there's some that need pulling or a floor that needs washing. It doesn't matter what you do so long as your engaged with something other than your sofa.
I've seen it in myself and my friends. That awful limbo between jobs or projects can work on you like an ice cube on a hot sidewalk.
So if you're an IT guy maybe it's time to populate one of those VM's with the latest Linux distro. Turn wrenches for a living? I'm positive there's a neighbor that could use some help. Maybe even deal with those weeds that mock you as you try to enjoy your morning coffee. No matter what you do, the simple act of doing it pays dividends that far surpass the task.